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What is Ecstatic Dance?

Let’s dive right in: what exactly is Blissful Movement?

Ecstatic Dance is an unrestrained dance form aimed at attaining euphoria. It’s a natural state where your consciousness shifts, offering a meditative and joyful experience through bodily motion. Beyond the sheer enjoyment of grooving to music, Ecstatic Dance has been scientifically verified to enhance both your mental and physical well-being.

The beauty of Ecstatic Dance lies in its lack of strict regulations. Just three key guidelines to keep in mind when partaking in a Ecstatic Dance session:

  1. No substances (alcohol/drugs)
  2. No talking
  3. No judgment
  4. No filming

Apart from these, there are no constraints during a Ecstatic Dance session! No set dance routines, no specific music genre – and, most crucially, an atmosphere filled only with love and acceptance. It provides a secure haven for you to genuinely express yourself however you please.

No access to Ecstatic Dance?

Transform your home into your own private stage!

We live in a time where events are not as accessible as they used to be. The Conscious Club used to organize special Ecstatic Dances every month to help you all relieve stress. it is such a powerful tool, so it is a shame we don’t all have access to it now. That’s why we want to give you some tips and tricks on how to organize your own, private Ecstatic Dance. Especially if you’re new to Ecstatic Dance, it might even be more comfortable to try out in the comfort of your own home.

HERE ARE SOME TIPS TO BEAR IN MIND BEFORE YOU START:

  • Blind the windows. You should literally dance like no one is watching.

  • Set up a good audio installation. This could be a portable Bluetooth speaker, but also your favorite pair of headphones. Just make sure the cables of your headphones don’t disturb your movement!

  • Find the right playlist. If you like the shamanistic vibe, we recommend this playlist. Prefer a mixture of different genres? Try out this one instead! These playlists are often timed for about one or two hours – so when the music stops you know your session is over.

  • Make space. If you live in a small apartment, move your furniture around to create space for your wildest dance moves. You don’t want to be confined to one square meter of freedom!

  • Make sure you’re not disturbed. Mute your phone, ask your flatmates to not disturb you for a while. This is time for you.

  • Set the mood. It is very important to create the right ambiance for you to be mentally transported to another place. You can do a couple of things to achieve that. One of which is lighting incense or a scented candle. Smell can trigger memories of other places and times – which could be very nice if you want to ‘escape’ your own home for a bit.

  • Close your eyes. It might happen that you feel a bit self-conscious. If that happens, close your eyes, dim the lights and focus on the music. Simply wait until you feel the need to start dancing.

  • Start slow. If you still feel a little bit insecure. Start by tapping your feet to the beat, or bobbing your head. Slowly increase your movements – there is no need to go all wild if you don’t want to yet!

Extra Pro-tip

Want to lift your Ecstatic Dance experience to a whole new level? Drink a good brew of cocoa beforehand! Cacao is not just a delicious drink, but the cacao beans contain a psychoactive ingredient called theobromine, which translates to “food of the Gods“. Theobromine is a bitter alkaloid that has been shown to be mildly stimulating, giving you a burst of energy and improving focus as well as memory storage.

Cacao also increases the flow of blood and oxygen to the brain as well as induces the release of endorphins and dopamine, our feel-good hormones. As a result, we are happier and our creativity is reaching peak states.

Since ancient times cacao has been used as a medicine to heal physical, mental and spiritual illnesses. Cacao has been shown to boost the immune system and lower cholesterol and blood pressure as well as leading to euphoria and deeper spiritual connection. Perfect in combination with Ecstatic Dance!

And there you have it! Now the only thing left to be done is for you to set the date. Perhaps you can already start your first session tonight?

Ecstatic Dance Guidelines?

The dances I’ve attended in Santa Cruz, Los Angeles, Oceanside and Toronto all share the Ecstatic Dance guidelines. Guidelines may vary by location, so try to make it to the beginning of the event for the opening circle.

ecstatic dance guidelines and rules

Move freely without judgment

Ecstatic Dance encourages self expression through movement. And people are most self expressed when they don’t judge themselves, nor feel judged by others.

The following rules all work to support this guiding principle.

No talking on the dance floor

This was harder than I expected. Until ecstatic dance, I didn’t realize that I talked as a means to distract myself from moving freely. Silence places the focus on being in the body. Get out of your head and into your body.

Note: You can talk off the dance floor and in rest areas. On occasions I’ve forgotten this rule said something to a friend. It was no big deal.

No shoes on the dance floor

Have you ever been stepped on…with heels? (It hurts.) Dancing without shoes initially seems like a hippie thing to do, but it’s so damn practical – it’s cleaner and prevents getting impaled by sharp heels.

Barefoot dancing also allows for more movement, especially for contact improv or literally getting down on the floor.

Drug free, substance free environment

Ecstatic Dance is a safe space, so it naturally follows that it’s a sober event. The only sanctioned high is the natural high from movement.

I’ve yet to see anyone drunk or tripping out, so it seems like everybody respects the honor code on this one. It helps that there is no alcohol sold. Sometimes, Ecstatic Dances have attached kitchen spaces that sell health conscious food & drinks.

Respect others’ space

Have you ever had someone grab you or just come up from behind and start grinding? That wouldn’t happen at Ecstatic Dance. People can’t feel truly free to move if they’re worried about someone violating their space.

So what if you want to dance with someone? Most facilitators, at the beginning of class, encourage dancers to make a clear signal – steady eye contact or extending a hand – and wait for a response. If there’s no clear, affirmative response, move away peacefully.

If someone wants to say no, they can put their palms together and namaste-away from the interaction.

Benefits of Ecstatic Dance?

Unlike other new age things I’ve explored, Ecstatic Dance made immediate sense to me. This was a safe space for self expression (say that 3x fast).

Another way to understand the benefits of ecstatic dance is to think of it as the polar opposite of a night club.

Bars & Clubs Ecstatic Dance
Alcohol-heavy environment Sober environment
Nighttime Daytime
Shoes Barefoot
Exclusive Inclusive
Talking/shouting No talking on the dance floor
Physical, e.g. hitting on women Respect for personal space
Status-driven Expression-driven

Another way I like to describe Ecstatic Dance is that it’s like going to a dance church.

The event is inclusive of all types of people, ages and backgrounds. You might see parents bring their kids to ecstatic dance or seniors bustin’ a move. Everybody is welcome.

Origins of Ecstatic Dance?

Ecstatic comes from the Latin word ekstasis – “standing outside oneself.” At ecstatic dance, you’ll see people lose themselves in movement.

I was surprised to find that forms of ecstatic dance can be found from ancient to modern history.

In Greek mythology, “the maenads were intoxicated female worshippers of the Greek god of wineDionysus, known for their “ecstatic revelations and frenzied dancing” (source).

Heck, even the Christian sect of Shakers were once shamed for their individualistic movements.

Shakers “sang, danced, and sometimes turned, twitched, jerked, or shouted… worship services were unstructured, loud, chaotic and emotional. Many outsiders disapproved of or mocked Shakers’ mode of worship without understanding the symbolism of their movements or the content of their songs.” (Wikipedia)

In the 1970s, Gabrielle Roth revived ecstatic dance and formalized it in her 5Rhythms practice.

Around 2001, Max Fathom used learnings from 5Rhythms and fused it with the increasingly popular genre of electronic dance music. This was big hit and Ecstatic Dance found its first roots on the Big Island in Hawaii. (Source: New Haven Ecstatic Dance).

In 2008, Donna Carroll founded Ecstatic Dance Oakland. Once the community moved stateside – especially into hippie Bay Area – Ecstatic Dance began to grow.

In 2015, Carroll founded Ecstatic Dance International which includes training on how to create an ecstatic dance community. This organizational structure powers much of the popularity of Ecstatic Dance today.

Tips for first-time ecstatic dancers?

How to find Ecstatic Dance events
If you’re in a sizable city, chances are that you’ll find an Ecstatic dance in your area. Google search “Ecstatic Dance” in your area, check out Meetup.com or search”ecstatic dance” on Facebook / social media. There’s also the list of locations on EcstaticDance.org, I’m just not sure how often it’s updated.

Side note: it's not uncommon for ecstatic dance events to be held at yoga studios, dance halls or even school gyms. Still none in your area? Make it out to a transformational festival like Lightning in a Bottle and experience it there.

Know it’s okay to roll solo
Ecstatic dance events have an inclusive atmosphere. It helps that the value of the event is to focus on self expression, so there’s no societal expectation to show up with friends or a dance partner.

If you’re anxious, bring one of your more open minded or hippie friends to join you.

Go for the full experience
Definitely don’t miss the beginning open circle. This is where you’ll learn the format and guidelines of that particular community.

Try a new dance move…or twenty
Think about any ways you might restrict your body, and all of that is game for exploration at ecstatic dance. Move around different parts of the dance floor, or consider why you tend to be planted in one spot.

If you were to try moving in a way that’s more feminine or masculine, what might that look like? If there’s resistance to moving a different way – why? This, to me, is the whole point ecstatic dance.

Final verdict: try it!

I wholeheartedly recommended Ecstatic Dance.

It’s safe. It’s fun. It’s challenging.

As a cerebral type of guy, I realize that maybe what hinders my growth is my mind, prone to hacking away on one problem to the next.

Ecstatic dance is the exact thing I needed to help me get out of my brain and into my body.

It’s far the lowest-risk, highest-reward movement practice I can think of.

It’s cheap or free if you want to try on your own first. But I strongly encourage attending a live event – going just once or twice can help you feel more free, self expressed and connected to yourself. These are intangible values that are getting more and more rare in distracted, high-speed society of our times.

So try it out.

It might just be the most fun you’ll ever have dancing.

Other resources and more reading?

Here’s a miscellaneous list of brain food to whet your curiosity about Ecstatic Dance…

Check out this Youtube video of Ecstatic Dance at the OG location in Oakland:

Written by cofounder of the international dance organization InterPlay, Cynthia Winton-Henry. Chockful of nuggets on overcoming anxiety and using dance as a vehicle for therapy and maybe even spiritual growth.